TochatoFor expats

Video chat for expats building a life somewhere new

Whether you want a feel for your new country, a fellow outsider who gets it, or a moment back in a familiar rhythm, Tochato puts you in front of real people on live video, wherever you've landed.

Two mindsets, one worldwide chat

There's no setting for "locals only" or "expats only" — matching on Tochato is worldwide and random. But the same conversations tend to serve two different moods, depending on what your week looks like:

When you want the local view

Some days you want a read on the place you now call home — how people who grew up here actually talk, what's normal that still feels strange to you, the small cultural context no relocation guide covers.

When you want someone who gets it

Other days you just want to talk to someone else living the outsider experience — the paperwork, the accent mistakes, the exhaustion of explaining where you're from over and over. You won't always land on a fellow expat, but when you do, it doesn't need explaining.

Six months in, the new-city excitement has worn into routine, and what you miss isn't a place so much as a language, a rhythm, an in-joke nobody around you would get. A single conversation in that old rhythm — even a short one — can do more than another night alone with a show in your first language.

Settling in on your own timeline

Expats' questions, answered

Can I choose to match with people from my new country specifically?

No — matching on Tochato is worldwide and random, so you can't filter by country. It cuts both ways for expats: you'll sometimes land on a local, sometimes on someone from home, and often on neither.

Can I find other expats from my home country?

There's no way to guarantee it, since matching is random and worldwide. Over enough conversations, though, you'll run into a wide mix of people, including plenty who understand what moving abroad is actually like.

Is this a substitute for making real local friends?

No, and it is not meant to be. Tochato is a good supplement for the evenings you do not want to be alone, but in-person connection still matters for actually building a life somewhere.

Is it safe to talk with strangers while I'm still settling in?

Accounts are moderated and you can end or skip any conversation at any time. Our full safety guide covers the habits worth building early.

Is it free to use?

Tochato is free to start. Some features may require a paid plan as you use the platform more.

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